His email reply on 11-14: “Thank you for you clear and concise first email and thank you so much for your time and for coming back to me so soon.  Sorry for the delay in my reply, I have been at work.”

“My girlfriend will not be pregnant yet, I gave you the wrong dates in my first message - sorry!  We only had intercourse a few days ago Sat (07/11/09) not 07/01/09. She has been taking the mini-pill for a couple of months at 7PM each day, and as far as I'm aware, never missed one. She was supposed to take her pill at 7pm on 07/11/09. We had intercourse I think somewhere between, 10PM – 12:00AM that night. As soon as we had intercourse, she realized she had not taken her pill at 7PM that night as planned, and took a pill straight away after intercourse (somewhere between 10pm - 12.00am that night).”

“We split up the following day and my suggestion by text that she may not have been protected and she might take the morning after pill, was met with some hostility! I'm hoping this is because she has it hand, but I am obviously very worried and have no control, and she won’t talk to me.”  

“I don’t know the brand of pill, but I do know it was a mini-pill .Obviously, all of the manufacturer’s guidelines say that there is only a 3-hour window in which she should be late, but surely the protection after 3 hours does not just drop to zero. I know you cannot give me any concrete answers, but in your opinion, given the times as above, would she still have had a very high level of protection? Maybe even the same level as if she had taken it on time. If she did NOT take another pill the following day, would this affect the protection she may have had when we had intercourse the previous night? (07/11/09).”

“I don’t know if this makes any difference but I am 35 and she is 33 years old. What is the likelihood of her getting pregnant given all this information, would you say it’s very unlikely?  I'm sorry for all the questions and the long email, and if I may have repeated myself a little, but as I’m sure you can tell, I am very anxious, and very much hope you can put my mind at ease, at least a little!”
  
Again, I would suggest that the risk of pregnancy is low, but not zero.

It might have been better if she had continued mini-pills for the next week.  At this point it is a waiting game.  Unfortunately, you and she are not communicating.  Perhaps she would communicate with me.